16 Recommendations on How to Improve your Sex Life after Menopause

Some women falsely believe in the wide-spread misconception that menopause signals the end of their sex lives. Nothing could be further from the truth, and there are no reasons to believe that the sexual life is over. Yes, menopause means the end of female fertility, but, by no means, it is not the end of a woman being a sexual being that requires intimacy and affection. The simple biological and psychological fact of the matter is that female orgasm can be reached long after your menopause.

Why sex life may be better after menopause?

There is absolutely no reason why a woman cannot continue to enjoy a happy and satisfying sex life during and after the menopause, if she wants to. There is overwhelming medical and statistical data that many women enjoy wonderful sex lives after they’ve passed the menopause – and continue to do so for a very long time. There is some factual evidence that:

• Women who are interested in sex are more likely to be orgasmic after the menopause than younger females.
• These women are also more likely to be multi-orgasmic!

There are multiple reasons for that, and we will just mention several of them:

1. After the menopause many women are glad to be able to quit worrying about contraception.
2. By the time they reach 50 or so, a lot of women have gained a great deal of love-making experience and skill.
3. Very often, by the time menopause came, they have already steady, or not so steady, but in any case, quite experienced partners who actually know what they’re doing in bed!
4. The kids are grown and out of the house, so lovers are thrilled that the empty nest has been reclaimed as their love nest.

Menopause can mean different things for different people. And while some may experience a decrease in sex drive, other women find that with the right mindset, their sex drive may actually increase. For some women, there is a burst of adrenaline that can encourage you to try new things, change your mindset and live through your 50s, 60s and beyond with vigor and an adventurous mindset.

In one of the recent studies performed by Christine Webber, it was conducted a survey among women aged 45-65. The findings showed that in that age group 26 per cent of women were definitely up for sex, while 29 per cent “quite liked it”. Only 6 per cent were not at all keen, and 16 per cent said that they’d be more interested if they had a new partner!

As stated by the National Institute of Health, some women actually feel liberated post-menopause, even reporting an increased interest in sex. In a 2000 study published in the “Journal of Women’s Health & Gender-Based Medicine,” 65 percent of women between the ages of 51 and 64, and 74 percent of women over 65 engage in sexual activity at least once a week!

The general concept confirmed by many researchers, is simple. The best predictor of having a good sex life after menopause is having a good sex life before menopause. Women who are happy with their premenopausal sex life are a lot more likely to be able to maintain that satisfaction post menopause.

Sex life challenges after menopause

While there are reasons to claim that the sex life after menopause can be better, there are definitely some challenges on the way, mostly associated with general menopause symptoms, occasionally painful and inconvenient. We are reviewing the menopausal symptoms in other section of this blog, but here we will list some briefly, as they are directly related to the sex life:

• Lack of desire. The simple fact of the matter is that libido can decrease incredibly with menopause. The hormonal changes that take place during this time of life tend to make sexual desire drop a whole lot.
• Vaginal pain and dryness. When estrogen levels decrease, vaginal dryness is quite common. Unfortunately, this can lead to painful intercourse.
• Weight gain. The weight gain that can sometimes go along with the menopausal stage might add to a feeling of lack of attractiveness.
• Urinary Incontinence. Involuntary loss of urine can occur at any age but, after the age of sixty-five, 10 percent of the population experiences mild to severe leakage. There are different types of incontinence, but by far the most common in women is stress or “giggle” incontinence, in which sudden movements or vigorous activity—such as sex—can result in leaks. Urinary leaks can be disconcerting, and the possibility of this happening during sex can cause some women to avoid partner sex altogether.
• Feeling changes. Arousal and orgasm might be harder to attain after menopause arrives. The hormonal changes are generally to blame for this.
• Fatigue. Hot flashes, night sweats, insomnia, mood swings and irritability can all add up to fatigue. This can quite often add to a reduced sexual drive. Extremely tired people don't necessarily have the greatest interest in intercourse.

How to enjoy your sex life after menopause?

While there are obstacles that stand in the way of having fulfilling sexual relationship after menopause, each of them can be overcome in one form or fashion. Women who want to enjoy normal sexual activity following menopause will find certain steps they take can help. These include:

1.       Letting go of the "taboo". Just because menopause has arrived, doesn't mean a sex life needs to be over. Couples can be and very likely should remain intimate. Unless there is a medical condition that prevents sexual activity, taboo need not apply here.

2.       Positive self-image. Women who work to retain their self-esteem and take menopause with the right attitude tend to do a bit better embracing sex after its arrival. It might take a little time to get used to the changes, but rest assured it can be done. The right attitude can go a long way in helping increase libido and arousal possibilities. You need to believe that you’re sexually desirable. Maintaining positive body image is a huge part of this.

3.       Engaging in healthy lifestyle. One of the best ways to amplify your libido is to work on your health first, which means increasing how much exercise you are getting. If you are unhealthy physically or emotionally, sex drive will certainly suffer. Having energy from a healthy diet and regular exercise, along with good sleep and mental health, are key ingredients in a healthy sex drive. Reduce alcohol consumption to the reasonable daily amount and stop smoking.

4.       Alternative Medicines. In the case of herbal remedies, there are two types of herbs that can be used for treating loss of libido: phytoestrogenic and non-estrogenic herbs. Phytoestrogenic herbs (e.g. Black Cohosh) contain estrogenic components produced by plants. These herbs, at first, do treat the hormonal imbalance by introducing these plant-based estrogens into the body. However, as a result of adding outside hormones, a woman’s body may become less capable of producing estrogen on its own. This causes a further decrease of the body’s own hormone levels. By contrast, non-estrogenic herbs don't contain any estrogen. These herbs stimulate a woman’s hormone production by nourishing the pituitary and endocrine glands, causing them to more efficiently produce natural hormones. This ultimately results in balancing not only estrogen, but also testosterone. Non-estrogenic herbs (e.g. Macafem) can be considered the safest way to treat loss of libido naturally as the body creates its own hormones and doesn’t require any outside assistance.

5.       Compensating for the estrogen loss. Hormone replacement therapy may or may not be the answer, but there are other options, too. Lubricants can help with the pain and dryness. Kegel exercises are useful for helping the body retain its muscle tone and can even help in the production of natural lubricants. This helps not only with urge incontinence but also strengthens the muscles that support the pelvic organs. There are other more or less medically proven solutions to help with your hormonal misbalance:

·         Hormone Creams: Hormone creams that contain estrogen can be applied to the vagina in order to increase blood flow. This blood flow should allow for increased sensitivity and easier orgasm.

·         Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT): HRT is still viewed by some professionals as the most successful menopause treatment. However, lately research has yielded conflicting results regarding its effectiveness. Estrogen can, however, make intercourse less painful by treating vaginal dryness and can help reduce other symptoms that may be complicating your sex life.

·         Testosterone Replacement Therapy (TRT): New research suggests that testosterone plays a major role in the female sex drive. A new testosterone patch has been shown to improve sex drive in women by up to 75%. This patch is not yet approved, but similar testosterone therapy is available. Side effects can include increased cancer risk, rapid hair growth, and a deepened voice.

6.       Educate yourself about your body. Educate yourself about your anatomy, sexual function, and the normal changes associated with aging, as well as sexual behaviors and responses. This may help you overcome your anxieties about sexual function and performance.

7.       Time for intimacy. Scheduling sex into your calendar may seem contrived and boring. But making intimacy a priority can help put your sex drive back on track.

8.       Touching and intimacy. After the menopause, touching and intimacy can sometimes become more important than the physical pleasure of penetrative sex. This need to touch and be touched, physically and emotionally, is well worth nurturing. Such contact offers reassurance and comfort and the opportunity to show tenderness, companionship and love.

9.       Communication. Talk to your partner and let him or her know about any issues or changes. Many lovers want to be supportive and in-the-know, but are often too shy to ask. Allow your partner to be part of the process, especially when it comes to your better sex efforts. Practice and experiment with more non-coital behaviors (physically stimulating activity that does not include intercourse), such as sensual massage, dancing, and sensual touching. These activities can be used to promote comfort and increase communication between you and your partner.

10.    Using erotic materials. Many sex therapists recommend the use of filmed or written erotica to encourage sexual interest, and erotic material is readily available for every taste and interest.

11.    Masturbation. Pleasuring yourself regularly can keep her vagina sexually “fit,” as in flexible and suppler. Exercising your pelvic floor muscles on a regular basis can further make for healthy muscle tone. Remember that it is a self-affirming sexual activity and is eminently useful in helping to discover different routes to sexual pleasure. In national studies, up to 40 percent of women report that they masturbate on a regular basis, but this incidence may be lower for older women. Many older women, raised in more conservative cultures, may remember being discouraged (or even punished) for masturbating as children, and may still be reluctant to engage in this pleasurable sexual activity. Ultrasound images have captured male and female fetuses masturbating in the uterus; these images confirm that masturbation is an innate and entirely normal part of sex!

12.    Clitoris stimulation. The majority of women over age 50, and many under 50, cannot climax with penile-vaginal lovemaking because the vagina is not the source of an orgasm, the clitoris is. It takes continual and prolonged stimulation of the clitoris for older women to achieve an orgasm. A vibrator can provide this stimulation if other techniques are not effective.

13.    Increased foreplay. Menopausal women might require extra stimulation to achieve arousal. Increased foreplay, cuddling and coaxing when mixed with proper lubricants can go a very long way. This can also help with the attainment of orgasm after menopause. The truth is achieving an orgasm might be harder than it once was, but it is not at all out of the question. Also, for many postmenopausal women, the fact that their husbands take longer to reach a climax becomes a bonus; it makes love-making far more enjoyable than when they were younger and everything seemed to be over in a matter of breathless seconds. This more prolonged love-making can provide time for both partners to explore new sensations and enjoy a variety of feelings.

14.    Experimenting. This may involve using a vibrator for more direct and intense stimulation to elevate arousal. Couples will also want to try positions offering greater comfort, like spooning, or ones where she’s more in charge, like woman-on-top.

15.    Having regular sex. Doing so helps to prevent the pain from thinning vaginal walls, which can become severe with menopause and aging.

16.    Getting engaged in couples’ therapy. If your sex life is not what you want it to be, get help from professionals. You might need to deal proactively with non-sexual social and relationship issues that may be negatively affecting your sexual health. Open dialogue with your partner, often guided by a therapist, can bring to the surface medical, psychological, and behavioral issues that might be contributing to the problem. Sex therapy sessions have to be attended by the couple for maximum benefits. They may significantly improve sex after menopause.

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Hair Loss and Thinning Caused By Menopause

"The most important thing I have to say today is that hair matters.

Pay attention to your hair. Because everyone else will."

Hillary Rodham Clinton, 

Speaking to the 2001 graduating class at Yale College

Why Hair is Important?

Arizona State University sociologist Rose Weitz agrees with Hillary that "Our hair is one of the first things others notice about us and one of the primary ways we declare our identity to them."

According to Weitz, hair can play this role for three basic reasons. "It is personal, growing directly out of our bodies," she said. "It is public, on view for all to see. And it is malleable, allowing us to change it more or less at whim. As a result, it's not surprising that we use our hair to project our identity and that others see our hair as a reflection of our identity.

This is especially true for women. "Hair and appearance more generally, matters in everyone's lives, but especially in women's lives," she said. "There is a wealth of research data that says that attractive people, but especially attractive women, get better grades in school, more dates, more marriage proposals, higher salaries, better job offers, and so on."

Hair Loss during Menopause

Due to the importance of woman’s hair for her self-image and self-esteem, rapid hair loss is the most upsetting and the most depressing symptom at Menopause. Although not as well know as some symptoms of menopause, hair loss can affect up to 70% of women.

Hair loss, also known as alopecia, means that a person is losing more hair than usual. Normally, each hair grows approximately 1/4 of inch per month, and continues growing for up to 6 years. Once the hair falls out, another grows in its place. Hair loss during Menopause occurs when the amount of hair that falls outnumbers the number being produced.

Generally hair loss is believed to be a condition affecting men but all women experience some degree of hair loss during Menopause or hair thinning at some point, and two-thirds of women will be severely affected. However, unlike with men, hair loss during Menopause in women does not typically result in complete baldness. In fact, most women suffer hair thinning, which is a loss of hair density (clear areas in the scalp) but not total loss of hair.

Hair Loss Causes During Menopause

The causes of excessive hair loss during Menopause vary from woman to woman but generally they fall into two categories; psychological and physical.

Psychological causes for hair loss during menopause: Anxiety, emotional stress, overdoing things and fatigue can all lead to hair loss during menopause or hair thinning. If these factors are not controlled, they can result in a woman becoming emotionally unstable. Usually these cases are temporary and hair loss during Menopause or hair thinning stops when periods of stress are over.

Physical causes for hair loss during menopause: Hormonal imbalance is the main cause for hair loss during Menopause. Testosterone is the main hair-producing hormone in the body but the DHT hormone, which comes from testosterone, has the opposite effect. The DHT hormone is the one responsible for under-producing hair in certain areas (especially the head). Yet, even though DHT is produced with testosterone, it is in fact controlled by estrogen.

When women are younger, estrogen and testosterone hormones are balanced, ensuring that DHT is controlled. But when women approach menopause, estrogen levels fluctuate leaving DHT production unmanaged and this results in excessive hair loss during Menopause or hair thinning. This is why maintaining estrogen hormone balance is important in controlling hair loss during Menopause.

The good news is that if the hair loss is menopausal related the effects are rarely permanent.

Other Causes

A variety of other factors may cause hair loss often temporary in women. These may include:

• Medications: Some drugs used to treat cancer can cause your hair to fall out. But other prescription drugs, such as blood thinners, antidepressants and high blood pressure medications, can also cause hair loss. So can birth control pills and high doses of certain vitamins.
• Diet: Too little protein in your diet can lead to hair shedding. So can too little iron. Bottom line: Too strenuous dieting can result in hair loss! If you want to lose weight, do it the sensible way, especially if you have a hair thinning/loss problem to begin with.
• Stress or illness: You may start losing hair one to three months after a stressful situation, such as major surgery. High fevers, severe infections or chronic illnesses can also result in hair loss. Auto-immune disorders can cause hair loss.
• Childbirth: Some women lose large amounts of hair within two to three months after delivery.
• Alopecia areata: Alopecia areata (ar-e-AH-tuh) is a condition in which hair loss occurs only in certain areas, resulting in hairless patches the size of a coin or larger.
• Thyroid disease: An overactive or underactive thyroid can cause hair loss. One may get her thyroid numbers in order after beginning a regimen of thyroid medication. HOWEVER, there have been reported cases of women experiencing hair loss FROM the thyroid medication.
• Ringworm If this fungal infection occurs on your scalp, it can cause small patches of scaling skin and some hair loss.

Treatment of Hair Loss in Menopause

If you are concerned about hair loss, Lovera Wolf Miller, MD, certified member of the North American Menopause Society (NAMS), recommends you begin with a visit to your doctor for a thorough workup, starting with a review of your diet, activity levels, stress, and other related symptoms. A treatment plan will be based on both your medical and lifestyle information. Experts will often recommend both pharmaceuticals and lifestyle changes.

Medication options

Menopause specialist Mary Jane Minkin, MD, Yale clinical professor of obstetrics/gynecology and coauthor of A Woman's Guide to Menopause and Perimenopause (Yale University Press, 2004), says that when it comes to treating menopause-related hair loss, she may prescribe a short-term (several month) dose of estrogen to see if that addresses the problem. Another treatment option to consider, she says, is the drug minoxidil (Rogaine). Dr. Minkin cautions, however, that if you're considering minoxidil, it's important to discuss its effects thoroughly with your physician beforehand because you could experience side effects. Miller adds that depending on your particular circumstances, other options might include low-dose steroids or the drug metformin, commonly used for type 2 diabetes.

Lifestyle adjustments

Miller also sees a role for less-invasive, everyday measures in hair-loss prevention. She suggests drinking green tea, getting enough vitamin B6, losing weight, and using hyaluronic acid shampoo. All may be helpful in restoring some hair growth in about three to four months, she says. "Fortunately, the upsides outweigh the downsides of these treatments. There is little to be lost and much to gain."

Stress, the bane of modern living, has also been linked to hair loss, says Christiane Northrup, MD, author of The Secret Pleasures of Menopause (Hay House, 2008). According to Dr. Northrup, chronically high levels of insulin and stress hormones can result in excess androgen (a male sex hormone), "which ultimately stops the hair from growing on the head and starts it growing on chin. The best way to treat it is stress reduction of all kinds." This includes getting adequate sleep, exercising regularly, and using relaxation techniques such as meditation and deep breathing. As an added benefit, these can all help ease your other menopause-related symptoms as well.

Alternative Remedies for Hair Loss

Alternative approaches involve little to no risk and can be an extremely effective way to treat hair loss. This level of approach can involve several different therapies. Herbal remedies are the most prominent, though in addition women may turn to such techniques as acupuncture or scalp massage in order to help stimulate hair follicles and regenerate hair growth. All of these can be valid and effective options, though most women find that herbal remedies are the easiest alternative treatment to follow, as the others require a greater time and monetary commitment. In addition, herbal remedies are the only viable option to treat the hormonal imbalance directly at its source.

In the case of herbal remedies, there are two types of herbs that can be used for treating hair loss: phytoestrogenic and non-estrogenic herbs.

Phytoestrogenic herbs (e.g. Black Cohosh) contain estrogenic components produced by plants. These herbs, at first, do treat the hormonal imbalance by introducing these plant-based estrogens into the body. However, as a result of adding outside hormones, a woman’s body may become less capable of producing estrogen on its own. This causes a further decrease of the body’s own hormone levels.

By contrast, non-estrogenic herbs, as the name suggests, don't contain any estrogen. These herbs stimulate a womanґs hormone production by nourishing the pituitary and endocrine glands, causing them to more efficiently produce natural hormones. This ultimately results in balancing not only estrogen, but also testosterone. Non-estrogenic herbs (e.g. Macafem) can be considered the safest way to treat hair loss naturally as the body creates its own hormones and doesnґt require any outside assistance.

A combination of approaches is usually the most effective route to take. Lifestyle changes combined with alternative approaches will most likely be the best way to alleviate hair loss. However, for some women the symptoms will be so severe that a more drastic treatment is necessary. In taking the leap into surgical options, side effects are inevitable, yet sometimes they can be worth it if the benefits will outweigh the risks.

How to Deal with Thinning Hair

If it's any consolation, many women who've experienced thinning hair or hair loss during the menopausal years will see an end to the thinning and loss once their hormones level off and they're post-menopausal. If all the hair doesn't necessarily return (and often much of it does), there's likely to be no additional loss.

• Many women adore their long or blunt cut tresses. However, if you can see your way to it, it's often a good idea to cut your hair short and in layers. Shorter, layered hair adds fullness and body and, as opposed to longer hair, there's no heavy "pull" from the scalp.
• Don't use combs, but soft brushes and try to avoid things like hair spray. Using a "good" mousse or soft gel after washing can give your hair additional body without harming the hair.
• A trick for fine hair or thinning hair: Blow dry in the opposite direction to how you normally part your hair. When dry, brush it back in the other direction. This way, you can double the "look" of the volume of your hair.
• Another tip is after washing your hair, dry it in whatever manner you normally do. Then turn your head upside down, give your head a vigorous shake, and once back in a standing position, either "place" your hair using your fingers, rather than a brush or comb. You can also use a hair pick to style your hair. The upside down - shaking - also gives a great deal of fullness to otherwise flat looking thin hair. You'd be amazed at how creative you can be with your fingers without pulling at the root of the hair.
• Avoid using any type of hair comb and anything that "tugs" at your hair.
• Alternate shampoos -- at least once a month.
• If you've had hair thinning at the temples (which many of us have from wearing hair pulled back in ponytails when we were younger), cutting your hair short and creating wispy bangs can camouflage the areas that have thinned out.
• If you go to a beauty salon for a haircut, tell them you don't want your hair cut in a "feathering" manner. Feathering has a tendency to make hair look even thinner. What you want is to achieve full looking layers, not anything too wispy and thin.

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How to Deal with Menopause Fatigue?

The restorative energy gained from a proper night of sleep is essential to a woman’s health and ability to function during the daytime. While in menopause, many women find that their energy levels aren't what they used to be, even if it seems that they are getting enough sleep. The most basic underlying cause of fatigue during menopause is hormonal imbalance. However, fatigue is a complex symptom of menopause as its causes and lifestyle triggers can be numerous. For example, extra work stresses, family strains, and others can worsen fatigue during menopause.

What is Fatigue and what is it caused by?

Fatigue is that general sense of tiredness, lack of energy or even hopelessness that a situation will improve. Fatigue can be caused by a number of situations ranging from work and family, to sleep and substance intake. Fatigue can be very trying to the menopausal woman as the body begins to cope with a new chemistry balance, thus depriving certain areas of what was once in abundance and causing the body to have to work harder for what it once took as a normal state.

Not Always what it Seems

Fatigue, often an indicator of a larger problem can be caused by other factors than Menopause and it pays to be aware of them and eliminate their candidacy before treating the fatigue. Some other factors include Anemia, Coronary artery disease, diabetes, heart failure and impending heat failure, hypothyroidism and hyperthyroidism, kidney and liver disease. When fatigue persists for more than two weeks and may be accompanied by other serious symptoms such as difficulty breathing, abnormal bleeding and a change in weight it is probably time to see your Health Care Provider and have a full examination so that the cause can be determined.

Menopause and Fatigue

Menopause or more specifically Perimenopause can be a very stressful time for a woman and its effects can be weakening to the point of debilitation. The important factor to identify in managing Menopause related Fatigue is to make sure that you are doing everything you can to eliminate the source of the fatigue. As your body changes you will need every bit of relief you can gain to make the smoothest possible transition towards a post menopausal state. Fatigue can hamper the will and the efforts to ensure that body chemistry and hormone levels and needs are being met. Fatigue can cause the menopausal woman to not take the steps she needs to reduce the suffering cause by other symptoms such as Hot Flashes or Depression. It can prevent her from exercising and engaging in social groups that can provide not only relief but the tools to manage Menopause. In short, Fatigue can be the multiplier that makes other problems worse.

Main Components

Physical: Cortisol, another hormone that runs through your body, is the primary factor that causes exhaustion. Estrogen helps control the level of cortisol in your body by keeping it in check. As the level of estrogen in your body decreases, the amount of cortisol that can flow through your body increases. So when you begin doing activities which might not have tired you out before and you feel as if they took more effort than they had before, it is because of the increase in cortisol levels.

Psychological: Anxiety and stress take a toll on us before menopause begins; now these emotions take an even greater toll and literally wear us out. High stress situations and environments become even more upsetting and can often become overwhelming.

How to Fight Fatigue

There are three categories of approaches, which can offer the remedy for the Fatigue during menopause.

1. Lifestyle Changes

• Exercise at least 30 minutes each day. Simple walking will even help improve energy levels and help to battle fatigue. Do yoga, stretching and other relaxing activities to keep body and mind in the pink. Just keep moving to raise up your norepinephrine (adrenaline) levels which will help to energize you.  As you may be experiencing fatigue largely due to anxiety or stress, practicing stress reduction techniques such as yoga or meditation, as well as breathing exercises, might be especially helpful to reduce fatigue.

• Get some sunlight each day. Sunlight stimulates feelings of alertness.

• Fatigue in the daytime is closely tied to a woman’s sleeping habits. Many nights during menopause, when women experience other common symptoms such as night sweats or sleep disorders, this can interrupt the sleep cycle and lead to fatigue as a result. In this case the importance of a good night’s sleep cannot be stressed enough. Cutting out caffeine and alcohol, and using the bedroom only for sleep, can also be useful. You may drink a small amount of mid morning caffeine. But avoid drinking it later in the day as it takes three to seven hours for the caffeine in a cup of coffee to leave your body.
• The hot flashes and night sweats that many women experience during menopause can interrupt sleep. Keeping your nighttime environment cooler than you usually do is one way to combat the sensation of heat. Using a fan, light bedding, and light night clothes will help keep the temperature more comfortable.

• Take a short nap. Even a 10 minute can produce immediate improvements in fatigue levels.
• Establish healthy eating habits. What you eat has a direct correlation to your energy level. Our bodies cannot function properly if we aren't eating the right foods. For instance, too little iron in your diet may cause you to develop anemia which leaves you feeling week and tired. Make sure you eat enough iron, eat whole grain breads and pasta, plenty of nuts and seeds, beans, eggs, dark green leafy vegetables and protein in the form of poultry and seafood.
• Drink adequate amount of water every day (8 to 10 glasses) to keep your body well hydrated.
• Consume vitamins and supplements for menopause fatigue. B vitamins are excellent for energy. The best way to get your B vitamins is through nutritional yeast. Be sure to get a brand that has been processed at low temperatures. Coconut oil is an excellent energy booster and good for your thyroid. It can also help you lose weight. Try 2 tablespoons in a little warm water before meals. CoQ10 is good for your heart and gums as well as your energy. L-carnitine is an excellent supplement for energy as well as weight loss. L-tyrosine is an amino acid that can give you more energy if you are not getting enough of it in your diet. Seaweeds are packed with nutrients, especially trace minerals, which many people are deficient in. Seaweeds also helps support thyroid function. You can add seaweeds to your diet or take a kelp supplement.
• Ask your family to help with chores at home.

Making these lifestyle changes is easier said than done, especially if one is accustomed to a certain routine. In addition, while these changes will help alleviate many symptoms, they do not address the problem directly at the hormonal source and so further treatment may be necessary. Alternative medicine has proven to be excellent for the treatment of fatigue in a safe and natural way.

2. Alternative Medicine

Alternative approaches involve little to no risk and can be an extremely effective way to treat fatigue. This level of approach can involve several different therapies. Herbal supplements are the most prominent, though in addition women may turn to such fatigue-fighting techniques as acupuncture, biofeedback, massage, or aromatherapy. All of these can be valid and effective options, though most women find that herbal supplements are the easiest alternative treatment to follow, as the others require a greater time and monetary commitment. In addition, herbal supplements are the only viable option to treat the hormonal imbalance directly at its source.

In the case of herbal supplements, there are two types of herbs that can be used for treating fatigue: phytoestrogenic and non-estrogenic herbs.

Phytoestrogenic herbs (e.g. Black Cohosh) contain estrogenic components produced by plants. These herbs, at first, do treat the hormonal imbalance by introducing these plant-based estrogens into the body. However, as a result of adding outside hormones, a woman’s body may become less capable of producing estrogen on its own. This causes a further decrease of the body’s own hormone levels.

By contrast, non-estrogenic herbs, as the name suggests, don't contain any estrogen. These herbs stimulate a woman’s hormone production by nourishing the pituitary and endocrine glands, causing them to more efficiently produce natural hormones. This ultimately results in balancing estrogen levels. Non-estrogenic herbs (e.g. Macafem) can be considered the safest way to treat these 34 menopause symptoms naturally as the body creates its own hormones and doesn’t require any outside assistance.                                                                                              

A combination of approaches is usually the most effective route to take. Lifestyle changes combined with alternative medicine will most likely be the best way to alleviate the symptoms of this hormonal imbalance. However, for some women the symptoms will be so severe that a more drastic treatment is necessary. In taking the leap into pharmaceutical options, side effects are inevitable, yet sometimes they can be worth it if the benefits will outweigh the risks.

3. Drugs and Surgery

If you have tried some or all of these recommendations without success, talk to your doctor. You might need to be evaluated for other problems, such as low thyroid function or obstructed breathing. And depending on your individual situation, your doctor also can talk to you about other treatments that can help fight fatigue during menopause, including:

• Hormone replacement therapy (HRT): A recent study in the British Medical Journal showed that women who took HRT experienced a significant reduction in sleep problems.
• Antidepressants such as fluoxetine (Prozac), paroxetine (Paxil), or venlafaxine (Effexor), can be helpful. However, you and your doctor will need to work together to determine which (if any) would be appropriate for your symptoms.
• Other medications for symptoms such as hot flashes may also be beneficial. Again, you and your doctor can determine whether birth control pills, the hormone progesterone, or blood pressure medications, for instance, might help alleviate your particular symptoms.
• Continuous positive airway pressure (CPAP) is a treatment that can ease breathing at night in menopausal women with fatigue and obstructive sleep apnea, a condition of disordered nighttime breathing.

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